My car just got wrecked, it's not the happiest day of my life.
我的车刚坏掉了,今天真不好过。
Would you please put it on top?
能请你把它放在最上面吗?
but as soon as a the question of prestige arises, as soon as you feel that you and some larger unit will be disgraced if you lose, the most savage combative instincts are aroused.